I'm not going to follow the links - I'm feeling too fragile right now.

I have a relative who believes that Romanians come to this country and kill the swans on the rivers to eat. Last month that same person explained to me in detail how a specific person had behaved well, with competence and honesty, and later in the conversation went on to say that all members of that person's ethnic group are lazy, dishonest and corrupt and have no right to live in this country. Sometimes I challenge. Sometimes I despair. I wish I had answers.